Your data.
Your trust.
Handled carefully.
You've already had enough taken from you without your knowledge. This page tells you exactly what information this platform collects, why, and what we do with it. No surprises.
If you've visited, signed up, or purchased — this covers you.
This Privacy Policy applies to all visitors and users of notafuckingcinderellastory.com, including anyone who signs up to receive emails, downloads a free guide, or purchases a product through this platform.
This platform is owned and operated by the founder of Not A Fucking Cinderella Story, based in South Africa. This policy is written in compliance with the Protection of Personal Information Act (POPIA) of South Africa, and with consideration of international standards including GDPR where applicable.
If you've given us your email address or bought something from us, this policy tells you what we know about you and what we do with it.
Only what we need. Nothing more.
We collect only the information necessary to deliver what you've asked for. This may include:
- Your name and email address — when you sign up for a free guide or join our mailing list via Flodesk
- Purchase information — name, email, and payment details when you buy a product (payment details are processed securely by our payment provider and never stored by us directly)
- Usage data — basic analytics about how visitors use the website, collected anonymously through Squarespace's built-in analytics
- Communications — if you email us directly, we retain that correspondence to respond to you
We do not collect sensitive personal information such as health data, identity numbers, or financial account details beyond what is required to process a purchase.
Your information serves you. Not advertisers.
We use the information we collect for the following purposes only:
- To deliver the free guide, product, or resource you requested
- To send you emails you signed up for — including our newsletter, new guides, and product updates
- To process and fulfil purchases
- To respond to questions or support requests you send us
- To understand how our content is being used so we can improve it
We will never sell your data, share it with advertisers, or use it in any way that isn't directly connected to serving you through this platform.
You chose to be here. You can leave any time.
When you sign up for a free guide or join our mailing list, you are opting in to receive emails from Not A Fucking Cinderella Story. These emails may include your requested resource, follow-up content, and occasional information about paid products or services.
You can unsubscribe at any time by clicking the unsubscribe link at the bottom of any email we send. Once unsubscribed, we will not email you again unless you opt back in.
We use Flodesk to manage our email list. Your data is stored on Flodesk's secure servers in accordance with their own privacy policy. You can review Flodesk's privacy policy at flodesk.com.
The platforms we use to run this site.
This platform is built on and uses the following third-party services, each of which has its own privacy policy:
- Squarespace — website hosting and analytics (squarespace.com/privacy)
- Flodesk — email marketing and list management (flodesk.com/privacy)
- GoDaddy — domain registration and email hosting (godaddy.com/agreements/privacy)
We are not responsible for the privacy practices of these third-party services. We have selected them carefully and use only what is necessary to run this platform.
Basic. Functional. Not tracking you.
This website uses cookies — small files stored on your device — to enable basic site functionality and to collect anonymous analytics data through Squarespace. We do not use cookies to track you across other websites or to build advertising profiles.
By continuing to use this website, you consent to the use of these cookies. You can disable cookies in your browser settings at any time, though some site functionality may be affected.
You have the right to know, access, and be forgotten.
Under POPIA and other applicable privacy laws, you have the right to:
- Know what personal information we hold about you
- Request a copy of the information we hold
- Ask us to correct inaccurate information
- Request that we delete your information — subject to any legal obligations we may have to retain it
- Withdraw your consent to email marketing at any time
- Lodge a complaint with the relevant data protection authority if you believe your rights have been violated
Email us at tatum@notafuckingcinderellastory.com. We will respond within 30 days.
We take reasonable steps to protect your information.
We take appropriate technical and organisational measures to protect your personal information against unauthorised access, loss, or misuse. Our website is hosted on Squarespace's secure servers, and email data is stored securely through Flodesk.
No online platform can guarantee absolute security. If you have concerns about transmitting sensitive information online, please contact us directly.
This platform is for adults.
This website and its content are intended for adults aged 18 and over. We do not knowingly collect personal information from anyone under the age of 18. If you believe a minor has submitted information to us, please contact us immediately and we will remove it.
This policy may change. We'll tell you when it does.
This Privacy Policy may be updated from time to time. The date at the bottom of this page reflects the most recent version. If we make significant changes, we will notify subscribers by email. Continued use of this platform after any update constitutes acceptance of the revised policy.
Questions? Email us at tatum@notafuckingcinderellastory.com.
Your information is safe here.
Just like you will be.
This platform was built on the principle that women deserve to know what's happening to them — in their relationships and everywhere else. That includes their data.

